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 %CENTRAL STATION EVIL RELATIONSHIPS ALIENATION SIN+010110
 %GUILT SHAME EXCOMMUNICATE REJECTION EXCLUSIVE GOD+010110
     %ANGER REVENGE GETTING YES EVEN CONFLICT PEACE+010110
  %RESOLUTION AGREEMENT COOPERATION TOGETHER SEXUAL+010110
   %DOMINATION SYSTEM DISCIPLINE LOYALTY ADDICTIONS+010110
 %ABUSE JUSTIFICATION SALVATION DAMNATION JUDGEMENT+010110
  %HEAVEN HELL CONFORM APPEARANCE DECEPTION HONESTY 010110
                                                          
     Central in the evolution of evil relationships which 
are characterized by:                                     
                                                          
                                                          
          alienation,    estrangement,    guilt,          
          shame,  excommunications,  rejections,          
          and exclusivity ---                             
                                                          
                                                          
is the willingness of domineering people  to use/abuse:   
                                                          
                                                          
          alienation,    estrangement,    guilt,          
          shame,  excommunications,   rejections          
          and exclusivity ---                             
                                                          
                                                          
                                                          
as  justified  tools with which to  manage,   discipline, 
punish,   threaten,  manipulate,  coerce,  violate,   and 
destroy people who are:                                   
                                                          
                                                          
          creative,  non-conformists, authentic,          
          artistic,   musical,   honest,   open,          
          lovers,  affectionate,  compassionate,          
          different;   and not preoccupied  with          
          issues of control.                              
                                                          
                                                          
                                                          
     Domineering  people  attempt to find  their  meaning,
security, salvation, satisfaction, and redemption in being
in control of "things" and people.   It is a futile effort
which  leads  to  tragic  consequences for  all  of  their
victims;   which include themselves ---   but  domineering
people cannot  see this truth because of their  arrogance,
self-righteousness and dishonest  patterns of manipulating
"things", peoples and truths.                             
                                                          
     Domineering  Leaders cannot (according to  their  own
ideals, values and principles) permit themselves or others
to know and enjoy true security as being safely vulnerable
within the sanctuaries of healthy  intimate  relationships
wherein  all participants are open,  honest,  and  equally
share   power   with  all  others  participants   in   the
relationships.  To  permit such sanctuaries to exist would
be to  permit such  people  to  come to recognize,   name,
understand,    transcend,   and  subvert  the  powers   of
Domineering Leaders to  be  in control.   The COSMOS would
fall  apart!    That would be the end of the WORLD of  the
Domineering Leaders --- upon which they  depend  for their
meaning,    security,    salvation,   satisfaction,    and
redemption.  NO WAY!                                      
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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