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 %ELIMINATE LACK MISSING DOMINATION SYSTEM CONFLICT+000922
 %SOURCE MEANING SELF ESTEEM RESPECT HONOR SUPPORTS+000922
 %DOMINEER PEOPLE GROUNDS MEANINGS ULTIMATE CONCERN 000922
                                                          
     The ultimate ground/source of meaning for domineering
people is to be found within:                             
                                                          
     1.  The achievement and maintenance of dominance.    
                                                          
     2.  Conflicts and contentions related to:  dominance,
controls, disciplines, rules, regulations,  prescriptions,
proscriptions,  scriptures, taboos, gods, sins, judgments,
punishments, condemnations, excommunications, etc.        
                                                          
     3.   Which  people  are winners ---   at the  expense
of which  other people who serve faithfully as losers, but
without thank, appreciation, or integrative benefits.     
                                                          
     4.    Which rich people are invulnerable  and  secure
by   taking    advantage  of   disadvantaged  and   highly
vulnerable poor people.                                   
                                                          
     5.  The    use   of   techniques/means/threats    of:
manipulation,      coercion,    deception,     discipline,
punishment, rewards and control.                          
                                                          
     6.  The maintenance of respected forms of addictions,
collusions,   codependence and domination ---ostensibly to
promote  law and order --- which are regarded as essential
to personal and communal integrity.                       
                                                          
     Domineering  people are terrified at  the  suggestion
that   people   should  or might   respect,     honor  and
support:    peacemakers,       negotiators,      conflict-
resolution,      and participants   in  healthy   intimate
relationships    which  promote    and   facilitate   both
personal   and   communal integrity --- through  openness,
power-sharing,  and  honest dialogue.     Such unthinkable
kinds  of   behavior   terrify  domineering   people   who
depend upon the domineering kinds of "things" suggested in
the six paragraphs above.    It is  unthinkable that  such
essential  domineering means   might be totally eliminated
from  the  communities which domineering  people  seek  to
control.                                                  
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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