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%DEFINE PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS MEANING ESSENCE LOVE+000820
%DOMINATION SYSTEM CONTROLS APPEARANCE BEHAVIOR SIN 000820
                                                          
     Domineering people often think,  feel,  and act as if
they  can  define  the  nature  and  meaning  of  personal
relationships.   Reality is more complex than that.    The
nature  and  meaning  of  personal  relationships  usually
depend upon many interwoven threads,  including,  but  not
limited to the following:                                 
                                                          
     1.  How  well the participants know,  understand  and
appreciate each other's perspectives,  talents,  gifts and
desires.                                                  
                                                          
     2.  How complementary the interests, abilities, hopes
and aspirations of the participants are.                  
                                                          
     3.  How balanced the participants are in distributing
and using power.                                          
                                                          
     4.  How  well the participants enjoy with each  other
the  freedom  to  be safely  vulnerable  in  each  other's
presence.                                                 
                                                          
     5.  How  well  the participants cooperate  with  each
other in mutually chosen and satisfying activities.       
                                                          
     6.  How well the participants understand each other's
reasoning,   myths,    cosmologies, stories,    attitudes,
beliefs,   fears, hopes, aspirations, goals, perspectives,
assumptions, etc.                                         
                                                          
     7.  How  dedicated the participants are to protecting
their diverse individual and communal integrities.        
                                                          
     8.     How    able,   competent  and  dedicated   the
participants  are   to achieve what they seek to achieve. 
                                                          
     9.  How  balanced the participants are in regards  to
ideals, values, principles, hopes, and aspirations.       
                                                          
     10.   How  well the participants'   most  significant
others   fit    into   the   fabric   of   the     primary
participants' relationships                               
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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