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 %CONTROLLING SINGLE CONSIDERATION WHO FRIEND POWER+000807
 %PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY HEALTH WELL BEING GOD+000807
  %LOVERS DOMINATION SYSTEMS TECHNOCRACY COLLUSIONS+000807
   %DILEMMAS TECHNICAL PROBLEMS ENGINEERS CONSUMERS+000807
  %DICTATORS KINGS QUEENS TYRANTS TERRORISTS DEVILS+000807
   %PRINCIPALITIES ANGELS HEAVEN HELL GOOD MORALITY 000807
                                                          
     For  domineering people within the context of an  on-
going    conflict    there  is   usually  ONE  controlling
consideration:     "Who   will  gain the  most  influence,
power  and control?"                                      
                                                          
     For healthy lovers within the contexts of various on-
going  conflicts  there are very often MANY  complementary
considerations which include the following ones:          
                                                          
     1.  Will both personal and communal integrity grow?  
                                                          
     2.  Will people become more free to be open & honest?
                                                          
     3.  Will  powerful  people  gain at  the  expense  of
vulnerable people; e.g., at the expense of people who are:
children,  women,  elderly, sick,  dis-eased,  imprisoned,
thirsty,   naked,  homeless,  poor,  powerless,  confused,
ignorant, uneducated, handicapped, etc?                   
                                                          
     4.  Will  additional people enjoy security  known  as
the freedom to be safely vulnerable within open and honest
relationships   which  are  characterized  by:    balance,
mutuality,    power-sharing,   mutual  respect,    prudent
tolerance, shared information, cooperation, etc?          
                                                          
     5.  Will  more  people learn from their own and  each
other's  experiences  in  ways which will help them  truly
resolve  conflicts so that all participants enjoy together
the sweet fruits of their conflict resolutions?           
                                                          
     6.  Will  additional people become more responsive to
each other's various: needs,  experiences, understandings,
perceptions,  values, ideals, dreams,  visions,  hopes and
aspirations?                                              
                                                          
     7.  Will  more  dilemmas be dealt with in ways  which
are   open,   honest,   and  help  to  build   cooperative
communities?                                              
                                                          
     8.   Will collusive games  of mutual  self  deception
be:   exposed  for what  they  are,   understood,   named,
described, transcended,  escaped,  and subverted?         
                                                          
     9.  Will hierarchical power structures, cast systems,
cliques,  gang-wars  and  terrorists-groups  ---  grow  or
decline?                                                  
                                                          
     10. Will   people  be  forgiven, liberated,   healed,
reconciled,   and empowered to fulfill their complementary
potentials?                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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