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 %DOMINATION SYSTEM ADDICT COLLUSION DETACH CONTROL+000615
 %DUTY IDENTITY SELF ESTEEM HONOR RESPECT BEST GOOD+000615
 %SALVATION REDEMPTION ACHIEVEMENT COMPETITION EVIL+000615
 %WORKS FAITH BELIEF DOCTRINES SCRIPTURES INTERPRET+000615
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     Supporters  of "The Domination System"  may often  be
understood  in  terms  of  the language  of  "Twelve  Step
Programs" in  regards  to  addictions  and the codependent
supporters of addicts.                                    
                                                          
     Supporters  of "The Domination System"  may  also  be
understood in terms of R.  D.  Lain's concept of collusive
games  of  mutual self deception;  in his book  "Self  and
Other".                                                   
                                                          
     In   any  case  an  important  concept   related   to
healing  and  liberation is that of  "detachment";   i.e.,
LETTING  GO OF  a sense of duty about,   or  a  compulsive
preoccupation with --- issues of control.                 
                                                          
     What is involved entails LETTING GO OF dysfunctional:
attitudes,   assumptions,  beliefs,  convictions,  duties,
identities,    self-esteem,  etc.  ---  which have  become
central to life and its meaning in exclusive ways.        
                                                          
     LETTING GO often very difficult to do,     especially
if near and dear friends,  relatives,   church members and
such are  unwilling  to  let go;  or to let-us-go ---   in
our letting go.                                           
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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