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 %VULNERABILITY INTIMATE FRIEND BROKEN RELATIONSHIP+990107                     
    %KNOWLEDGE WEAPON REVENGE ANGER ALIENATIONS SIN+990107                                        
  %EVIL DIALOGUE CONFLICT RESOLUTION COERCIVE EVILS 990107                                       
                                                                                                                               
     Becoming  involved  in  an   intimate   relationships                     
involves  the  risk of sharing knowledge and secrets which                                                                     
may be  used  by the other  person ---  in coercive and/or                                                               
violent  ways---should  the  relationship  turn  sour   or      
totally  break  down with anger and resentment on the part                   
of the other person. The risk is  great  during the active                                                               
phase  of  the  relationships and even greater following a                                                              
possible break down in the relationship.   For this reason                   
we  need  to enter intimate  relationships with our  eyes,                 
ears,  and affective  perceptors open---to receive signals        
that the other is not fully dedicated to becoming involved                                                               
in  an intimate  relationship characterized by BALANCE  in                     
regards  to values such as:  openness,   honesty,   power,                                 
integrity,  cooperation, tolerance, patience,  gentleness,                                                                   
forgiveness, and other complementary values.                                                 
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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