This is http://www.essayz.com/a9812201.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %REGULATE FRIENDSHIP INTIMACY SEXUAL DESIRE PASSION+981220 %PERJURY HONESTY OPENNESS SECURITY VULNERABLE SIN+981220 %CONTROL DISCIPLINE LAW ORDER MORALITY ETHICS EVIL 981220 People who are preoccupied with issues of control are not inclined to trust different people to seek personal and communal integrity in their private relationships. Controllers want public assurances which overcome their skepticism about and distrust of different people. They feel that controllers have the right to ask public questions about people's private behaviors, and to receive re-assuring public responses which convince them that those questioned are not guilty of being private non- conformists in violation of rules which are only tacit/implicit. Controllers seek to make complex situations to appear to be simple; for it is difficult to control complicated situations. Controllers are prone to deal with questions which must be answered either "yes" or "no"; with no additional alternatives permitted. It is dangerous to permit creative people to avoid answering simplistic questions; for such permission will undermine the possibility of certain controls which are essential to the maintenance of law and order by controllers. Thus public pressure must be maintained to force non-conformists to publicly confess their improper private behaviors. It is unreasonable to expect controllers to investigate the private behaviors of all citizens to assure themselves that all citizens will be treated equally and justly in these matters. Any attempt to do so would expose the absurdity of the desires of the controllers. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================