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    %PLEASURE HAPPINESS SECURITY JOY LOVE SALVATION+981203                                           
   %FULFILLMENT ACHIEVE PREOCCUPATION ISSUE CONTROL+981203                                                           
%TECHNIQUE ACHIEVE GOAL COVET LETTING GO RELAXATION 981203                                                  
                                                                                                                               
     Pleasure,  happiness, security, joy, love,  salvation                                           
and related forms of fulfillment are not  achieved/enjoyed                                                              
by   people  who are preoccupied with issues  of  control,                                                           
or preoccupied with techniques for achieving chosen goals.                                                  
                                                                                                                               
     Those  forms  of fulfillment which we most covet  ---                                                                     
cannot  be  achieved  through the use  of  techniques  for                                
achieving pre-chosen goals.  We can enjoy such fulfillment                                                                     
only when we let go of our preoccupations with them,   and                                                            
let go of the technologies which we regard as the means to                                 
achieving such fulfillment.                                                                                                    
                                                                                                                               
     To  enjoy life we must let go of many  preoccupations               
which stand in the way.    We need to cooperate in  laying      
the  foundations for relationships and  communities  which                                                              
are open,  honest, integrative and cooperative.    When we                                                                  
are preoccupied with dichotomous conflicts and controls---                                              
we   cannot  let  go  of  what  is  destroying  us,    our                                                            
relationships, and our communities.                                                            
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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