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  %PREOCCUPATION SELF JUSTIFICATION RIGHTEOUS EVILS+981107       
%ALIENATION ESTRANGE LACK OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE FAIL 981107                                        
                                                                                                                               
     When  we  are  preoccupied  with  self-justification,                                                      
self-righteousness,      and   issues   of    control---we       
then  cannot  perceive  clearly  other people's needs  and        
issues   over  which they are  in conflict.       Then  we                                              
cannot  make creative contributions  to  the resolution of                         
conflicts  in  WIN-WIN ways.  We  are   counter-productive      
when   we     are preoccupied   with   self-justification,                                                      
self-righteousness  and  issues   of  control.      To  be       
people  and  communities of integrity we need to let go of                 
such preoccupations.                                                                                                           
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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