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    %ENCOURAGE SUPPORT GROWTH DEVELOP SEXUAL MATURE+980930
  %INTIMATE FRIENDSHIPS RELATIONSHIPS CRITICIZE SIN+980930                     
   %EVILS FLESH BODY MIND SPIRIT SOUL FRAGMENTATION+980930                                       
  %DICHOTOMY CONFLICT DISINTEGRATION UNHEALTHY FEAR 980930                                              
                                                                                                                               
     People  who  systematically  fail  to  offer  healthy                                    
encouragement  and support  to  other  people --- who  are                                                            
seeking   to  grow    in   maturity   regarding   intimate                     
friendships  and personal relationships --- are:                                                              
                                                                                                                               
     1.  Unlikely  to  be  qualified  to   offer  unbiased                                                                     
criticism   and   judgments ---  regarding people who fail                                 
to  fulfill  their  potentialities  for   such    intimate                     
growth.                                                                                                                        
                                                                                                                               
     2.  Likely   to  offer  unsolicited  criticisms   and                                                                     
judgments  ---   regarding people who  fail   to   fulfill                                 
their potentialities for such intimate growth.                     
                                                                                                                               
     3.  Unlikely  to  be growing  in  maturity  regarding                                 
their own friendships and personal relationships.                   
                                                                                                                               
     4.  Likely  to  perceive the  world  through  glasses        
which  simplify  complex  situations  ---  so   that   the                                                                     
difference between "good" and "evil" people are defined in                                     
terms of individuals'  behaviors --- rather  than in terms                                                       
relationships  which are characterized by:   estrangement,                                                              
alienation,  separation, fragmentation, and disintegration                                        
---   pertaining   to   both  persons  and  their  various                                                                 
communities.                                                                
                                                                                                                               
     5.  Likely  to perceive issues in terms of  either/or        
forced choices;  rather  than  in  terms  of spectrums  of                                                                     
opportunities, challenges, and possibilities.                                                                                  
                                                                                                                               
     6.  Likely to be preoccupied with fears, disciplines,                                                                     
commandments,  prescriptions,  proscriptions and issues of                                                                     
control.                                                           
                                                                                                                               
     7.  Unlikely    to  behave  responsibly  in   elected                                  
offices  which entail great powers and responsibilities                                  
                                                                                                                               
     8.  Are unlikely to be responsive to people who point                                  
out  occasions of  insensitivity,   blindness,   deafness,                                                                     
arrogance,  self-righteousness,  judgementalism,  coercion       
and violence on their part.           
                                                                                                                               
     We need to beware of such immature people.                 
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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