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   %DUTY UP-TIGHT INTENSE VEHEMENT DEMANDING RIGHTS 980613       
                                                                                                                               
     Some  people  have grown up in an  environment  where                   
they  have learned that it is normal and proper to be  up-                                                                     
tight,   intense,  vehement and demanding.   In fact  they                                                                     
often feel that such is their duty;  and  feel ill-at-ease                                                                     
when  they  experience peace,   tranquility,   relaxation,                                   
shalom.   They may feel that they do not have any right to       
have such an experience ---   and so they become up-tight,                                   
tense, vehement and demanding so as to return to what they                                                                     
have come to consider as normal, natural and proper.  They   
are prone to be contentious,  demanding,   and to generate                
conflict ---  in order to feel normal.   They are prone to                                              
generate tragic circumstances and consequences.    We will                                                                     
be  wise  and  do well to learn how to  recognize,   name,                                               
describe and talk openly and honestly about such people in                                                                  
ways which will help them to transcend their dis-ability.      
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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