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  %CONTROL HEDONIST PLEASURE SEXUAL FULFILLMENT SIN+980611
  %MORALITY ETHICS LAWS LEGALISM JUDGMENT CONDEMNED+980611                                                                     
 %FAILURE LEARN MISTAKES FRUITS KNOWLEDGE GOOD EVIL 980611                                       
                                                                                                                               
     Many people seek to control human sexuality:
                                                                                                                               
     1.  To maximize their own pleasures,                   
     2.  To maximize their own self-righteousness,       
     3.  To maximize law and order,                                                                                            
     4.  To maximize personal advantages,                                                                 
     5.  To maximize corporate profits,                                                                                        
     6.  To maximize population growth of their own.                   
                                                                                                                               
     Ultimately  all efforts to control human sexuality in
such  ways  fail.    The unspoken goals  are  not  reached      
because the control of human sexuality is not an effective
means to the attainment of such goals.                                                                                         
                                                                                                                               
     Human  sexuality  pertains to personal  and  communal
integrity  ---   which  cannot be  divided  into  separate  
realities.     Righteousness   has  to   do   with   right       
relationships;  relationships characterized by:                                                              
                                                                                                                               
OPENNESS       HONESTY        BALANCE       RESPECT                                      
                                                                                                                               
TRUST          VULNERABILITY  RISK          HONOR                                                                              
                                                                                                                               
COMMITMENT     SECURITY       SHARING       ACCEPTANCE         
                                                                                                                               
TOLERANCE      INCLUSIVITY    HOSPITALITY   FELLOWSHIP                                                                         
                                                                                                                               
FRIENDSHIP     CREATIVITY     GROWTH        CHANGE                         
                                                                                                                               
FORGIVENESS    HEALTH         LISTENING     RECONCILIATION                                                                     
                                                                                                                               
     Systematics, planning, control and conformity --- are            
not   the   essence  of   righteousness   and   integrity.       
Technocrats   cannot   engineer  righteousness,    health,       
personal   integrity   or   communal   integrity.     Only                                                                
participants in collusive games  of  mutual self-deception 
rely   upon   technocratic   considerations   to    assure                                                  
righteousness,   health,  personal integrity  or  communal       
integrity  ---  and their is  little hope or joy in  their                                                                   
ways.      
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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