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%UNIQUE PEOPLE PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP INTEGRITY WILL+971228                                                              
  %RULES LAWS PRESCRIPTIONS PROFESS TRUE SELF OTHER+971228                        
 %PRETEND DISHONEST COLLUSIVE DOUBLE BIND ADDICTION 971228                                                
                                                                                                                               
     There are many different kinds of people; unique,  in               
spite of similarities.    There is a much larger number of                                                                     
different, inter-personal relationships, because  for each                      
person    there   are   more   than   two   inter-personal                      
relationships;  with two parents plus at least  one  other                                                              
person.                                                                 
                                                                                                                               
     Just  as it is counter-productive for any one  person               
to try to be just like some other person,  so  also  it is                                                               
counter-productive  for participants in one inter-personal                      
relationship to try to make their relationship  just  like                                                              
some other inter-personal relationship.   Similarly, it is                      
counter-productive  to  try  to  enforce  rules,   laws or                                                                     
prescriptions demanding such conformity.            
                                                                                                                               
     It  may be helpful to be aware of,  and informed  of,                                                                     
how  other people are true to themselves and to each other    
---but no pattern is likely to fit in another situation in                                                               
a helpful way.    One  pattern may be  an  inspiration for      
another,  but not a helpful engineering plan for any other               
person(s).   It is especially tragic when people take some                                                                 
specific  pattern  and  seek  to impose it  as  a required                                                                     
pattern upon others.    Impositions,  dominance,  coercion                                                     
and violence are bound to be alienative and so bound to be           
disintegrative of  persons and communities.     Pretending                                                                
otherwise is alienative and disintegrative.                                        
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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