This is http://www.essayz.com/a9605101.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONTROL SCARCE RESOURCE ADDICT FIXATION COMPULSIVE+960510 %GROUNDS HOPE TRUST FULFILLMENT SATISFACTION ACCEPT+960510 %LOVE EVIL GOOD SALVATION REDEMPTION CONFLICT FAIL 960510 People who are preoccupied with issues of control are in need of there being scarcity of key resources which are regarded as essential to people whom they seek to control. People in need are easier to control than people who have plenty. If the essential ingredients for human fulfillment, satisfaction, joy and happiness are readily available---it is not easy to manipulate people and be in control. In the presence of plenty there are no handles with which to manipulate people---for scarcity cannot be threatened; and undreamed of "plenty" cannot be offered as a hoped for "reward". People who are preoccupied with issues of control must, in the "light" of the above, eliminate the experience of plenty and the appearances of plenty. They must get people to experience lack of all essential ingredients for human fulfillment, satisfaction, joy and happiness. They must generate an "economy of scarcity" of: love, affection, opportunities, acceptance, affirmations, clarity, approval, self-esteem, knowledge, community, energy, insight, minerals, and resources in general. To control people there must be control of the supply of and access to the essential ingredients for human fulfillment, satisfaction, joy, hope and happiness. Where there is plenty, it must appear that there is not plenty. Where there is access, the access must be brought under control. Where there is love, there must be the restraint of love, Where there is affection, it must be rationed. Where there are many opportunities, there must be guidance. Where there is acceptance, it must be filtered through requirements and prohibitions. Where there are affirmations, they must be denials. Where there is clarity, it must be clouded with confusion. Where there are excessive approvals, there must be judgments and condemnation. Where there is unbridled self-esteem, it must be undermined. Where there is knowledge, it must be forgotten. Where there is community, there must be conflict. Where there is energy, it must be dissipated. Where there is insight, it must be dismissed. Where there are resources, they must be managed by people in control. People who threaten this program of control by generating the possibility of generosity, are people to be feared and threatened; for they may undermine the possibility of our being in control---our only hope. Threats to our program of control may take the form of people helping each other recognize we controllers want to be in control of what is important and/or essential to human fulfillment---and that our control of what is important and/or essential is the key to our power. How many people see this clearly? That is an important question to consider. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================