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 %ENJOY MEANINGFUL SEXUAL ACTIVITY INTEGRATIVE LOVE+960113
  %WHEN PRUDENT WISE HEALTHY COMMUNICATION HONESTLY 960113

     When are sexual relationships best?  In what context?
Under what conditions?

                    When:

1.  Participants  are  well  matched as to  power to
influence each other.

2.  Participants are well informed as to the  nature
of   sexual  relationships  and  their   possible/probable
consequences.

3.  Participants are recognized as competent to make
their own decisions regarding sexual involvements.

4.  Participants mutually desire sexual  involvement
in  the absence of coercion,  manipulations,  violence  or
threats thereof.

5.  Participants are being open and honest with each
other.

6.  Participants are mutually vulnerable and secure.

7.  Participants are free to say no-more at any time
and exercise that freedom appropriately.

8.  Participants  respect each other's integrity  as
it is.

9.  Participants  are not using each other as  means
to self-centered goals/ends.

     10.  Participants know each other well in an open and
honest intimate relationship.

     11.  Participants are prudently not fearful.

     12.  Participants are prudently not defensive.

     13.  Participants are not manipulated by others.

     14.  Participants  are  not  controlled  by   outside
considerations.

     15.  Participants are not dominated by  any desire or
intention  to achieve some objective goal.

     16.  Participants  are  not dominated by any  set  of
prescriptions or proscriptions.

     17.  Participants are not dominated by any  technical
considerations.

     18.  Participants'  community and families are  aware
of and supportive of their levels of intimacy.

     19.  Participants  are aware of and prudent regarding
the risks of disease transmission.

     20.  Participants  are aware of and prudent regarding
the possibilities/probabilities of pregnancy.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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