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  %PERSON INTEGRITY HONEST CHALLENGE COLLUDER ALIEN+951110
   %INTERDEPENDENT CONTROL WHOLE MISTAKE FOCUS EVIL+951110
  %CONFLICT RESOLUTION LEARNING IDEALS VALUES GOALS 951110

     A person of integrity is:

     1.  Being true to self and others,

     2.  Being an honest challenge to colluders' ways,

     3.  Interdependent in honest uncontrolled ways,

     4.  Independent of preoccupations with issues of
     control.

     5.  Present to others as a whole person,

     6.  Seeking both personal and communal integrity,

     7.  Ready, willing and able to learn from mistakes,

     8.  Focused upon resolving conflicts between ideals,
     values, principles, goals and the people who
     embody them.

     9.  Securely at peace with self and others.

     10.  Qualified through experience to help others take
     good care of themselves; i.e., demonstrably
     ready, willing and able to do so.

     11.  Free of debilitating fears, preoccupations,
     collusions, compulsions, addictions, inhibitions
     and controls.

     12.  Involved in helping people to transcend
     conflicts by working together to meet all their
     basic needs.

     13.  Not clinging to conflicts in efforts to win at
     other people's expense.

     14.  Free to relax and be creating in being
     themselves.

     15.  One who recognizes, describes and deals honestly
     with the unique character of conflicts between
     disintegrative ideals and values---which lead to
     human alienation; and integrative ideals and
     values---which lead to human reconciliation.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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