This is http://www.essayz.com/a9509202.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %OPEN HONEST EXPLICIT THEORY EVIL ALIENATION CAUSE+950920 %DISINTEGRATIVE ADDICTIVE BEHAVIOR 950920 In the ABSENCE of an open and honest theory which explicitly articulates the nature of evil relationships and their roots---people are likely to live in terms of tacit and dishonest theories which implicitly regard evil in terms of perverted powers which must be negated through the use of coercive/violent controls that engender more alienative relationships. Evil relationships exist in the ABSENCE of positive relationships which are motivated and guided by integrative beings who are focused upon: love, honesty, joy, gentleness, generosity, faith, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, etc. Evil relationships are rooted in LACKS; i.e. in: absences, deficits, neglects, deficiencies, neediness, dearths, poverty, shortages, insufficiencies, scarcities, darkness, dimness, obscurity, disregards, uncertainties, ignorance, etc. Evil relationships are suffered by people who are LACKING in experiences of: love, honesty, joy, gentleness, generosity, faith, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity, health, etc. The LACKS of evil are overcome/transcended through the PRESENCE of people who are: loving, honesty, joyful, gentle, generous, faithful, hopeful, trusting, accepting, tolerant, forgiving, forgiving, wise, knowledgeable, humble, integrative, healthy etc. The LACKS of evil cannot be compensated for by behaviors which are motivated and guided by people who are LACKING in: love, honesty, joy, gentleness, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity, health, etc. People who are LACKING in: love, honesty, joy, gentleness, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity and health---often try to fight evil as if evil entailed demonic PRESENCES which had to be opposed/destroyed at great costs which entail the use of: objectifications, coercions, excommunication, separations, techniques, violence, alienation, etc. People who are in want of love, honesty, joy, gentleness, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity and health---usually try to fight and destroy evil in ways which are lacking in love, honesty, joy, gentleness, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity and health. It is futile to expect them to do otherwise so long as they are in want of all that they lack. The LACKS which characterized evil relationships can be eliminated only by increases in the following due to the PRESENCE of: love, honesty, joy, gentleness, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity and health. It is in the PRESENCE of GOD and HOLY SPIRIT which evil relationships are often transcended by people who are familiar with: love, honesty, joy, gentleness, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity and health. Evil relationships are rarely not overcome by: authority, authorities, laws, judgements, police, prisons, isolation, deprivations, punishments, separations, excommunications, condemnations, rejections, etc. It is when evil relationships are recognized as being rooted in LACKS---that it becomes possible to deal with evil relationships through the graceful PRESENCE of what has been LACKING. When evil is regarded as due to some demonic presence in particular people, groups, organizations, words, images, things, statements, rituals, doctrines, texts, places---misguided ignorant people are prone to try to destroy whatever they think is tainted by such a demonic presence. They pride themselves in their skill in recognizing, isolating and destroying whatever is tainted by a demonic presence---because they are themselves so LACKING in love, honesty, joy, gentleness, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity and health. The essence of such tragic behaviors is LACK. People who are LACKING in love, honesty, gentleness, joy, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity and health---are FEARFUL; full of, driven by and guided by: fears, anxieties, apprehensions, doubts, pretentions, dishonesty, deception, repressions, suppressions, addictions, fixes, conflicts, violence, coercions - - - AND VICE-VERSA. Such people engender more such people and all the empty negativities of which they are full. It is a paradoxical situation which cannot be understood rationally, logically, objectively or even scientifically---because it is a reflexive situation which is affecting/afflicting all who seek to analyze it and control it in such ways. People who seek their fulfillment/salvation in identifying, judging and condemning people whom they conceive to be evil---are LACKING in love, honesty, gentleness, joy, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity and health---and are FEARFUL; full of, driven by and guided by: fears, anxieties, apprehensions, doubts, pretentions, dishonesty, deception, repressions, suppressions, addictions, fixes, conflicts, violence, coercions. A different paradigm is needed. In the ABSENCE of a transcendent paradigm and people who transcend the tragic situations described above---there is little wisdom. It is not the destruction/elimination of demonic realities which is required; it is the integrative presence of people full of: love, honesty, gentleness, joy, generosity, faithfulness, hope, trust, acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, wisdom, knowledge, humility, integrity and health---which is needed. We need to accept, invite, welcome, honor, support and assist such integrative people---for us to be free of evil relationships and free of our fears of evil as we perceive evil to be present---even though it is mostly LACKS. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================