This is http://www.essayz.com/a9506052.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DOING JOB WELL INTEGRITY+950605 %CONFLICT RESOLUTION PERSON WHOLE+950605 %LEARN STUDENT TEACHER PROFESSOR+950605 %SCHOOL COLLEGE UNIVERSITY EDUCATE 950605 We can do well only what we do with personal integrity. If we are internally in conflict we cannot do what we do well, especially if we are in conflict about what we are trying to do. We cannot learn to do well what we are in conflict about. We cannot learn well if we are disturbed by unresolved conflicts. Thus education must focus upon the resolution of conflicts which are likely to block or inhibit learning. All human conflicts are reflexive realities and can be resolved only through full acknowledgement of their reflexive natures. People who are fixated upon or preoccupied with objective realities are thus unlikely to deal effectively with conflicts which are likely to block or inhibit learning. Such people are not well qualified to be teachers or professors. We need to learn to recognize and respect people who help others to resolve their conflict; i.e., to recognize peace makers. Such people do not resolve other people's conflicts for them, for that is impossible. Such people help other people to recognize, acknowledge and deal honestly with their own conflicts by helping to generate contexts where all people can enjoy true security known as the freedom to be safely vulnerable. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================