This is http://www.essayz.com/a9502261.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ENVISION PLAN REFLEXIVE OBJECTIVE CHANGE PROGRAM 950226 It is generally easier to envision and plan for changes which are objective in nature---than to envision and plan for changes which are reflexive in nature. When we do envision and plan for changes which are mostly reflexive in nature---it is easy to slip into dealing with the objective aspects of the changes, and to try to treat the reflexive aspects as if they were objective---or act as it they will follow naturally from success in dealing with the objective aspects of the vision and plan. If we try to manage reflexive aspects of change as if they were objective in nature, we naturally become manipulative and perhaps outright violent---especially if we feel, think, assume or believe that we have the duty or right to take charge and/or be in control of the changes. When we try to take charge and/or be in control of reflexive aspects of changes in human lives---we are bound to generate alienation and so engender evil relationships. We will do well and be well if we deal honestly with the differences between changes which are primarily objective in nature, and other changes which are primarily reflexive in nature. If we do not deal honestly with the differences we are bound to treat them without respect for the differences and generate alienation and so engender evil relationships. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================