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 %KIND ADDICTS CODEPENDENT SUPPORT COERCION VIOLENT+950107
%RESPECT ACCEPT CONFLICT MAINTENANCE RESOLUTION SIN 950107

     Addicts  and their codependent supporters often  work
to  make  their kinds of coercion,  violence and  conflict
maintenance appear deceptively kind.

     Addicts and their codependent supporters work to make
some kinds of coercion,  violence and conflict maintenance
appear  unacceptable,  not-respectable,  and  dangerous---
while   their   own kinds of  coercion,     violence   and
conflict  maintenance    are    made  to  appear   to   be
acceptable, respectable, and not-dangerous.

     Addicts  and  their codependent supporters focus upon
the   KINDS   of  coercion,      violence   and   conflict
maintenance;   and  so  deflect attention  away  from  the
personal  and communal disintegration which all  kinds  of
coercion,  violence and conflict maintenance engender.

     People  who are true to themselves and each other  in
God's   Love   focus  upon  the  PERSONAL   AND   COMMUNAL
DISINTEGRATION  which all kinds of coercion,  violence and
conflict  maintenance  engender---not upon  addictive  and
codependent distinctions between different kinds when  all
of them are un-kind.    Such people live in Love,  not  in
addiction  and codependent support of endless varieties of
respected  addictive behaviors which are not recognized as
addictive behaviors.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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