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   %BEST INVITATION OPEN HONEST INTIMACY VULNERABLE+941124
    %COERCIVE MANIPULATIVE DECEPTIVE CONTROL ADDICT+941124
     %VIOLENT THREATEN REJECT PUNISH REWARD ABUSIVE 941124

     At  their  best true invitations to open  and  honest
intimacy do NOT entail:

     THREATS     COERCION     VIOLENCE    MANIPULATIONS

     DECEPTION   DISHONESTY   CONTROLS    ADDICTIONS

     REJECTIONS  PUNISHMENTS  REWARDS     ABUSE

     TECHNOLOGY  DEVICES      PLANS       SYSTEMATICS

     FIXES       FIXATIONS    COMPULSIONS DICHOTOMIES

     At  their  best true invitations to open  and  honest
intimacy DO entail:

     RISKS       LIBERATION   GENTLENESS  VULNERABILITY

     TRUST       HONESTY      RESPECT     GROWTH

     RESPONSES   LISTENING    AFFECTION   FREEDOM

     SUBTLENESS  HINTS        RELEASE     SUGGESTIONS

     CREATIVITY  HUMOR        LAUGHING    SPONTANEITY

     If we do not have clear images of what the best kinds
of  invitations to open and honest intimacy DO NOT  and DO
entail,  we are likely to accept invitations which are far
from the best, as if they were the best possible.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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