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%GUIDE LEAD SUGGEST HELP ENCOURAGE HEALTH INTEGRITY+941009
  %SHARE DEMAND VIOLENT COERCE THREAT PLEASURE JOYS 941009

     There  are  many  different ways to  offer  guidance,
leadership,  suggestions,  help and encouragement  towards
personal and communal health and integrity.

     It is useful to  be  able to distinguish and describe
the differences between those ways which are healthy,  and
those ways which are un-healthy.  Being preoccupied in un-
healthy ways, with un-healthy fears, is not helpful.

     We  need  to  distinguish  between (and describe  the
differences  between) healthy fears and un-healthy  fears;
and between how people respond to each kind of fear---with
respect and sharing, or with suspicion and fear.

     It is particularly helpful to respect, encourage, and
facilitate the honest sharing of:

     non-demanding,  non-violent,

     non-coercive  and  non-threatening - - - - -

     pleasures,  joys,  fulfillments,

     discoveries,  inventions,  creations,  visions,

     dreams,  and  fantasies.

     It   is  helpful  to  seek  to  minimize   coercions,
violence, alienation, rejection and excommunications.

     It is helpful  to  seek  to  moderate  extremes,  and
preoccupations with perfection.

     It is prudent to suspect demands,  self-righteousness
and arrogance which lead to disintegration.

     It    is    integrative   to    facilitate    honest:
descriptions,     namings,     articulation,     dialogue,
communication and sharing.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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