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%WORKAHOLIC CONTENTION CONFLICT PEACE SERENITY REST+940908
  %REWARD RESOLUTION SECURITY WAIT LATER HURRY RUSH 940908

     The  workaholic  lives with an attitude that success,
achievements,  and perfection  will  bring  the rewards of
rest, peace,  serenity and tranquility---later. Success is
usually  viewed as due to  the  intensity  of  efforts  to
overcome   obstacles   to  the   achievement   of   goals,
intentions,  expectations,  etc.   If  there is contention
between  conflicting   goals,    intentions, expectations,
ideals,   values and  principles---then the response is to
work  harder  at overcoming the obstacles.    Conflict  is
intensified.

     It is not  evident  to the  workaholic that conflicts
between goals,  intentions,  expectations,  ideals, values
and principles need  to  be  resolved.   In truth, working
harder is irrelevant until the conflicts  are resolved and
there is inner peace, serenity, rest, and security.

     Inner  peace,  serenity,  rest and security are  pre-
requisites  to  success;    not the rewards  for  success.
Working    harder  often  heightens  tensions,  conflicts,
violence,  distress  and insecurity---and often undermines
success which would otherwise be possible.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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