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     %GROUND SELF ESTEEM SOUL SPIRIT BODY REFLEXIVE+940228
      %INCARNATE PARADIGM TALK DIALOGUE COMMUNICATE+940228
   %CONFIDENCE HONEST TRUST SECURITY DEFENSIVE LOVE 940228

     A  paradigm  lacks  integrity and health if  it leads
those    who   are   its    fullest   incarnations    into
systematically  remaining silent about their true  grounds
for:    self   esteem,   self   confidence,      reflexive
considerations, mutual   respect,    trust,      security,
intimate relationships,  body  care,  thoughts about birth
and death, and  their  spiritual life. Such  is  the  case
with  the  paradigms  of  people   who  are  compulsively:
objective, technocratic,       perfectionistic,  analytic,
legalistic, religious, and/or judgmental.

     We  cannot  be wise if we cannot be in dialogue about
our   grounds  for  all  the above essentials of a healthy
life. If we systematically avoid such dialogue, we are not
wise.

     We  need to give careful consideration to  whether or
not   the people  whom we admire,   respect,  support  and
whose  leads   we  follow---are in  dialogue  with  others
about  their  grounds  for all the  above  essentials of a
healthy  life.    If they  are  not  participants in  such
dialogue,   we  need  to reflect  upon  how  confident  we
can reasonably be in their leadership, and in ourselves as
their followers.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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