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     %TRULY PERSONAL ACCEPTED FAMILY COMMUNITY NEED+930509
   %FREE TRUE SELF OTHER DISHONEST DECEPTION APPEAR 930509

     We have  not  been truly accepted as  a unique person
and accepted our personal acceptance if we continue to:

     1.  Feel a need to pretend to be other than we really
   are.

     2.  Play collusive games of mutual self deception.

     3.  Seek for ways to fix our imperfections.

     4.  Fixate upon addictive fixes for our problems,
   dilemmas, and tragedies.

     5.  Try to control what we cannot control.

     6.  Seek to conform to achieve acceptability.

     7.  Seek to manipulate peoples' perceptions of us.

     8.  Be preoccupied with laws, rules, commands, etc.

     9.  Reject people who are different from us.

     10.  Fear abandonment, rejection, excommunication.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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