This is http://www.essayz.com/a9304281.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %COLLUSIVE ADDICT QUESTION PERSONAL INTEGRITY 930428 When collusive addicts and codependents doubt, question or put in doubt people's integrity, it is often for ulterior motives in support of the dishonesty of collusions and addictions. They equate personal integrity with support of the dishonest patterns of their collusions and addictions. People who do not support manipulative, coercive, dishonest and often violent efforts to be in control; are regarded as lacking personal integrity and are questioned so as to call into doubt their personal integrity. The real purpose of such questions is in great contrast to the ostensible purpose. It is important for people and communities to learn to see behind the masks of the ostensible purposes of the questioning of people's integrity. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================