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 %VIOLENT CONDEMN DEMAND COURAGE HONEST BALANCE JOY 930419

     Exclusive  ideals and values lead us and motivate  us
to  deny the importance of and the mutual pleasures to  be
found together in affirming integrative values and ideals.

     Exclusive ideals and values lead us to be:

     1.  Exclusive rather than to be inclusive.
     2.  Negative rather than to be positive.
     3.  Judgmental rather than to be forgiving.
     4.  Arrogant rather than to be humble.
     5.  Disintegrative rather than to be integrative.
     6.  Rejective rather than to be acceptive.
     7.  Intimidating rather than to be encouraging.
     8.  Defensive rather than to give security.
     9.  Violent    rather    than    to    be     gentle.
    10.  Condemners   rather   to   nurture   with   love.
    11.  Rude   rather  than  to  be  polite  and  gentle.
    12.  Demanding   rather   than   to  be  appreciative.
    13.  Dishonest and secret rather than open and honest.
    14.  Manipulative  rather  than  to   be   liberators.
    15.  Alienated rather than integrated in communities.
    16.  Excommunicators rather than to be good listeners.
    17.  Depressed  rather than to be joyful and creative.
    18.  Detached rather  than  responsive/responsible.
    19.  Calculative rather than friendly/affectionate.
    20.  Dichotomous rather than whole and healthy.

     Exclusive ideals and values do not:

     1.  Provide any way to transcend them.
     2.  Encourage personal or communal integrity.
     3.  Promote openness or honesty.
     4.  Lead to healthy growth, change or evaluations.
     5.  Show and motivate us in the ways to balance.
     6.  Help us be liberated from ignorance/confusion.
     7.  Show the way out of collusions or addictions.
     8.  Lead us or others toward  conflict resolutions.
     9.  Lead to health for persons or communities.
    10.  Help technocrats transcend their technocracies.
    11.  Help leaders to lead wisely.
    12.  Expose false prophets.
    13.  Integrate honest sexuality into healthy living.
    14.  Help us transcend dilemmas and tragedies.
    15.  Show us how to deal well with our limitations.
    16.  Lead people into cooperative creative ventures.
    17.  Lead us toward  communal balance and stability.
    18.  Help us transcend dilemmas of fundamentalism.
    19.  Guide us helpfully in dealing with criminals.
    20.  Promote religious honesty or humility.

     The  fruits  of exclusive ideals and  values  are  in
great  contrast  to  the fruits of  inclusive  ideals  and
values.   By their  fruits shall you be able to  recognize
them and know which  ideals  and values merit respect  and
affirmations. See next essay.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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