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%GUIDANCE ADVICE LEADER INSIGHT DESCRIBE UNDERSTAND 930414

     There are various kinds of control to which  we  will
respond  in various kinds of ways---if we are wise.   Many
people are  preoccupied with control and have a  generally
positive  disposition toward  all kinds of control so long
as they see themselves as in control or close to those who
are  in  control.   How we respond to  the  appearance  or
reality  of control depends upon how open,  honest,  wise,
and  understanding  we  are about  the  various  kinds  of
control  and  the  consequences  of the existence  of  the
appearance or reality of control.

     As  we observe the appearance or reality of each kind
of control we  need  to seek  insight  into  the  motives,
motivations,  purposes, aims, attitudes and assumptions of
the people most closely associated with control.  For what
control brings depends  upon such reflexive realities to a
large  extent.   What control brings does not  necessarily
depend upon objective realities.

     As we observe the appearance or reality of each  kind
of  control we need to ask if any of the  following  words
may  appropriately be used to describe the kind of control
which we observe:

     IDOLATROUS         UNNECESSARY             ALIENATIVE

     REJECTIVE          ILLEGAL                 IMMORAL

     UNETHICAL          DEFENSIVE               EVIL

     EXCOMMUNICATIVE    DISINTEGRATIVE          DISHONEST

     MANIPULATIVE       PERSONAL                UNBALANCED

     UNJUST             REFLEXIVE               COLLUSIVE

     ADDICTIVE          CODEPENDENT             UNHEALTHY

     OBJECTIVE          SPIRITUAL               PRAYERFUL

     Honest meditating upon the possible propriety  of the
use of the above words in describing instances of apparent
or  real control may help us to be wise in how we  respond
to what we observe.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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