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%DISHONEST PRETENSE DETACH OBJECTIVE PEOPLE SCIENCE 930414

     It  is  dishonest to pretend not to  care  about  how
other people  think and feel about us---when in fact we do
care. Why do  we  engage  in  such  dishonest  pretense of
indifference and detachment?

     1.  To try to appear objective?
     2.  To try to avoid getting hurt, disappointed?
     3.  To try to appear superior?
     4.  To try to appear to be in control?
     5.  To avoid intimacy and risk in absence of trust?
     6.  To avoid being vulnerable without security?
     7.  To avoid taboo reflexivity and honesty?

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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