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    %SUBCONSCIOUS CONFLICT ARTICULATE CONVERSE TALK 921220

     Subconscious  conflicts  are those which we have  not
articulated to ourselves or to others:  we have not talked
about them, we have not engaged in conversations, dialogue
or  communications regarding them.  They  will most likely
remain subconscious conflicts until we do articulate them,
talk about them, and engage in conversations, dialogue and
communications regarding them.

     Not   all   of  our  coping  processes  are   verbal,
articulated;   using formal languages.  Many of our coping
processes  take place without the benefit or hindrance  of
formal  languages;   at sub-con-sci-ous  levels;   without
benefit of sci-ence or con-sci-ousness. It is dishonest to
act as if all our coping is at the level of consciousness.
Part of  wisdom  is  to  be able to articulate what has to
date   been  sub-con-sci-ous;   without  overt  scientific
knowledge.

     Many  of our conflicts are outside the range  of  our
conscious  reach---and so  outside  the realm of conscious
conflict resolution---because we permit the  conflicts  to
remain  sub-con-sci-ous;   and do not seek to be  true  to
ourselves  or  to  each  other  about  such   subconscious
conflicts. It is part of wisdom to know when to articulate
such  conflicts,   to  talk  about  them,   to  engage  in
conversations,  dialogue, and communications in efforts to
clarify  the  poles  and  issues  which  characterize  our
conflicts---so we may transcend our collusions, addictions
and codependencies.

     See the previous essay.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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