This is http://www.essayz.com/a9212091.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INSECURE PEOPLE THREAT CONTROL GOD ADDICT DEPEND 921209 Insecure people who lack true self confidence are the people who are most likely to threaten and try to control other people in the manner of addicts and codependents. If God is the creator of the universe and as powerful as is suggested by the role which God is presumed to have played, would God be insecure and lack self confidence? Would God be so insecure, lacking in self confidence and in self esteem that God would be prone to threaten people with punishment for failure to conform? Would God be the kind of God who would try to control people in the manner of addicts and codependents; or would God be kind, gentle, compassionate, forgiving, sympathetic, and unconditionally inclined to be in dialogue with people in trouble? In light of the above considerations, why is it that so many people (including religious leaders) have been prone to portray and think of God in terms of the behaviors which are so characteristic of people who lack self confidence and self esteem in the manner of addicts and codependents? Most likely it is because such people themselves lack self confidence, self esteem and true security of the kinds which an all powerful, kind, gentle, compassionate, forgiving, sympathetic and unconditionally accepting God would be inclined to offer to people in trouble. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================