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  %MAINTAIN BALANCE TECHNIQUE MOTIVE INTEGRATE LOVE 921004

     To  be in true love we must maintain balance both  as
to the techniques/technologies which we employ, and as  to
the motives which motivate/guide our efforts.

     If  we  are  out of balance as to the  motives  which
motivate/guide our  efforts, we are likely to make  unwise
choices as to the techniques/technologies which we employ.
We are then prone to become manipulative and coercive even
though   being   manipulative   and   coercive   will   be
disintegrative, rather than integrative.

     If    we   are   out   of   balance   as    to    the
techniques/technologies  which we employ we are likely  to
drift  toward  the   embodiment  of  unbalanced   motives,
ideals, and values---which will further unbalance our menu
of techniques/technologies which we will tend to employ.

     The  further out of balance we are as to  motives  or
techniques,   the more likely we are to go further out  of
balance.  Thus integrative living is a constant process of
seeking  to  move  toward  balance  in  order  to  counter
exponential tendencies to drift out of balance.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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