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   %OBJECTIVE HUMAN REFLEXIVE RELATION CARE CONCERN 920720

     Human    relationship   are   essentially   reflexive
relationships  because  we care about  how  others  think,
feel,  respond, and react to how we approach them;  how we
are with them,  the nature of our presence,  what our body
and facial languages say to them,  what we say in speaking
and in being and in doing, and how we do/do-not touch each
other.

     Because human relationships are essentially reflexive
relationships  it is impossible for human relationships to
be  objective relationships.  We cannot effectively relate
to  each other purely objectively---if we are being honest
with  ourselves  and  with each other.  If we believe  and
think   that   we  are  relating  to  each  other   purely
objectively it is only because we  are  playing  collusive
games of mutual self deception. We are pretending that our
relationships are not essentially reflexive relationships,
pretending  that  we  are  detached  from  each  other  in
objectivity.  We are pretending  that we do NOT care about
how  others  think,  feel,  respond,  and react to how  we
approach them;  how they are with us,  the nature of their
presence, what their body and  facial languages say to us,
what  they  say in speaking and in being and in doing, and
how they do/do-not touch each us,  and we them.  If we are
honest  we openly and honestly acknowledge that our  human
relationships  are not objective relationships, and behave
accordingly.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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