This is http://www.essayz.com/a9112152.htm         
Previous-Essay      <== This-Essay ==>     Following-Essay
Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words.
{Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.}
==========================================================
  %FEAR CHANGE STATUS QUO POWER ADVANTAGE GROW LOVE 911215

     Insecure people fear change,  for change may rob them
of  their  unfair  advantages  to  use  their  powers   to
manipulate status symbols,  objects, and people to bolster
insecure self esteem.

     Insecure  people  fear  growth,  for  growth  entails
change over which they do not and cannot have control.

     Insecure people fear Love which promotes growth,  for
they  cannot  control  the growth and changes  which  Love
promotes.

     Insecure  people try to black the changes and  growth
which  Love promotes;  doing so in way which are not  open
and honest about why and how they try to black the changes
which   growth   and  love   promote--because   they   are
participants  in  hidden  collusive games of  mutual  self
deception which might be changed by love and growth.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
==========================================================