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 %ACHIEVE ENVISION GOALS CONTROL EMOTION ANTICIPATE 910525

     Attempts to achieve our envisioned goals through  the
control  of our own or other people's emotions tend not to
yield  the  envisioned benefits,  and often  such  efforts
yield  bitter  fruits  which were not anticipated  in  our
visions.    This  is  true whether we attempt  to  promote
desired   emotional  responses/behaviors  or  to   inhibit
undesired emotional responses/behaviors.  Responses to our
efforts  are  not necessarily those we envisioned  in  our
plans.    The consequences of our efforts are often tragic
in  ways that we do not understand.   Usually our  efforts
are  guided  by  sincere convictions that our  ideals  and
values   are   respectable,   that  our   techniques   are
appropriate,    and  that  the  planned   sacrifices   are
reasonable.    Yet  we  repeatedly  fail  to  achieve  our
envisioned  goals through emotional control;  and fail  to
learn from our failures.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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