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 %DENY FOCUS ATTEND SEXUAL POSSIBLE ADDICT LEGALIST 910524

     More sexual  possibilities exist than we can  fulfill
with  personal and communal integrity.   It is not healthy
to  either deny the reality of real sexual  possibilities,
or to focus addictively upon trying to fulfill more sexual
possibilities than can be fulfilled with integrity.

     People can become addicted to attending to  excessive
sexual  possibilities wither in denial of possibilities or
in futile efforts to fulfill all envisioned possibilities.
In  either  case the focus of attention is  unbalanced  in
disintegrative   ways  and  life  becomes  unbalanced  and
disintegrative.     Preoccupation  with  denial   is   not
inherently  better  than preoccupation  with  fulfillment.
Both  forms  of preoccupation usually  entail  dishonesty,
attempts  to  be  in control,  and  confusion  about  real
possibilities for meaningful intimacy.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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