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  %EQUAL VULNERABLE SECURE DEFENSIVE BALANCE HEALTH 910512

     Some people find their security in a healthy  balance
in   which  they  work  daily  to  maintain  equality   of
vulnerability and power.  Such people enjoy security which
is  the freedom to be vulnerable in secure contexts  which
are given and received as joyful gifts.

     Some people  find  their  security  in  an  unhealthy
imbalance  in which they work daily to achieve  inequality
of  vulnerability and power.    Such people enjoy  little,
and  are  constantly  on the defensive  because  they  are
insecure as they seek inequality.   They find equality  in
the insecurity which they maintain through their defensive
efforts.   Such people  cannot  see what they are doing to
themselves  and to others.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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