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  %PROJECT BLAME CLAIM OTHER RESPONSE SELF RESPONSE 910501

     People often view others as being responsible for the
responses of the people themselves to circumstances around
the  people.    Thus  people blame others  for  what  they
themselves are responsible for.   Projections into  others
of  that  which  is truly one's  own,   is  dishonest  and
confusing.

     Other  people  cannot  control  our  emotions,    our
thoughts and  our behaviors.    It is dishonest to pretend
that they can  control  us in that way.    It is dishonest
for us  to pretend  that  we  can control  other  people's
emotions,   thoughts  and behaviors.    To be honest,   we
must learn to own that which is uniquely our own,   and to
let others own what is uniquely their own.    Confusion on
these  matters can be very debilitating!

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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