This is http://www.essayz.com/a9101021.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %IGNORE OWN SENSATION EXPERIENCE CONSCIENCE ADDICT 910102 In the dysfunctional society the pervasive message is give to children that they should ignore their own sensations, experiences, conscience and other indications of what is essential to their own personal and communal integrity. The dysfunctional society's members believe that the key to the good life is to be found by focusing attention outside of what can be known through healthy self consciousness; i.e., by avoiding self consciousness. Self consciousness is feared as the ultimate threat; and is to be avoided at all costs. In the dysfunctional society self-consciousness is to be avoided at all costs because the members of the society as children experienced pervasive rejection and neglect when they attended to the messages of self- consciousness; experiencing such encouraging attentions as they did experience only when they focused their attention in such ways as to divert their attention away from: themselves, their sensations, their perceptions, their fears; their hopes, their etc. Children are a threat to the collusive, addictive and codependent games of mutual self deception of dysfunctional societies. Children must be taught not to see the truth about the dishonesty of the central misleading games of mutual self deception. Children must be taught to divert their attention away from self-consciousness and towards the "truths" of the collective consciousness; and only towards such collective "truths." Children must not be permitted to have the time to meditate, pray, dream, envision, or focus their attention in any but prescribed and supervised ways; for if they do so, they are bound to embarrass the powerful members of the dysfunctional society. The consequences of that are unthinkable. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================