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  %CREATIVITY LACK LOVE INSECURITY CONFORMAL AFFECT 901220

     People  who are  insecure because they  have not been
loved  are   prone  to become  people---pleasers  who  are
primarily concerned    with   finding   ways    to    earn
attention,  consideration,  praise,   rewards,  affection,
etc.  Their ultimate  focus is in external considerations,
upon  other  people's  perceived  and  imagined  behavior.
They   thus   tend  to   conform    to    other   people's
expectations, or  rebel against them.

     Conformists  who are desperately seeking to  earn the
love  that  they have never really known are  unlikely  to
take the risk  of being genuinely creative.  Their limited
forms  of  creativity  conform to the expectations of  the
people whom they are  trying to impress.   They are unable
to  transcend  the  expectations  of  those to  whom  they
are  trying  to conform.   Their creativity is constrained
by  the dominant paradigm  of  their  limited  subculture,
and  they cannot transcend its limitations.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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