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      %CONGRUENT COMPLIMENTARY EXPECTATIONS DESIRES 901127

For  two people to participate in healthy  and  meaningful
intimacy   their   expectations   and  desires   must   be
complimentary without manipulation or coercion.

Desires  which are generated to fulfill  another  person's
manipulative   desires,    are  not  meaningful   desires.
Producing  such desires in response to manipulations  does
not generate satisfactory meaning.

Meaningful  desires  are truly responsive,  not  reactive.
Reactive  desires are often not honest,  for dishonesty is
often elicited by manipulative desires and actions.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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