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   %SILENT TACIT INVITATION COLLUSION PARTICIPATION 901015

     Participants   in   collusions  invite us  in   tacit
ways   to  participate    tacitly  in   their   games   of
mutual    self deception.    It is not easy to avoid tacit
participation,   because   inaction can  be  participatory
action;   and it  is often  difficult to see what positive
action can be  taken to avoid the action of  participatory
inaction in the tacit dishonest games.

     In  response  to  tacit  invitations  to  participate
in  dishonesty,    it is often helpful to speak the  truth
which the invitation invites us to ignore.   Such speaking
of  the  truth need not be confrontational.    It  may  be
offered  in a matter of fact way which tacitly ignores the
invitation  to ignore  the  truth.    Confrontation of  an
overt   sort  may invite a violent response.  A   counter-
invitation to openly deal  with the truth is not likely to
elicit  any  explicit response,  because  participants  in
collusions  are  unable to deal explicitly with the  truth
spoken by Love.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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