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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9002273.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PATERNAL EXCESSIVE ASSISTANCE HELP LOVE SUPPORT 900227 Excessive assistance tells the recipients of the assistance that they are not competent and cannot take care of themselves. Excessive assistance discourages the recipients from engaging in any efforts they may otherwise be inclined to make to take proper care of themselves. Excessively helpful parents, teachers, social workers, etc. seek to fulfill their own needs by how they help others; not by how they honestly enter into balanced relationships with other people. To excessively helpful people their personal relationships are opportunities to earn goodness points by being of service; relationships are used for earning goodness points, not enjoyed in mutual presence. Codependents are forever offering excessive assistance to addicts in ways which keep the addicts forever dependent upon the helpers who forever need to be needed. Not all servants serve with authentic love. Some servants imprison others with their excessive service. It is difficult for such people to escape from each others' needs and services. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================