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  %MOURN GRIEF HONEST ACKNOWLEDGE BROKEN BONDS MEAN 890724

     Mourning  and  grief are honest  acknowledgements  of
broken  bonds  of  human meaning upon  which  people  have
depended for security and significance---because of  human
limitations  by  which  human  significance  and  security
depend upon particular human bonds.

     Mourning  and  grief  have to do with  honesty  about
human    limitations;    limitations   which   mean   that
significance  and security depend in part upon  particular
bonds.

     The  tearing/passing of particular bonds means  hurt.
Mourning and grief have to do with being honest about that
hurt which is due to human limitations.

     People  who  cannot be honest about their limitations
are  people  who cannot honestly mourn or  express  grief;
they  play collusive games of mutual self deception  about
their limitations.  They pretend not to hurt. They pretend
that they are secure when they are not.  They pretend that
they  have  a secure self esteem when they do  not.   They
become defensive and violent in their hurt and insecurity.
They become addicts and addicts'  supportive  codependents
who  together  participate in deadly games of mutual  self
deception  which  lead  to  more  broken  bonds  and   the
repressed need for mourning; etc.; etc.; etc.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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