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                  %RESPECT FOR DISINTEGRATIVE FEARS 880526

     Some fears are worthy of respect, and other fears are
not  worthy  of respect.   It is important to know how  to
tell  the  difference  between fears which are  worthy  of
respect  and  those  which  are  not  worthy  of  respect.
Communities  which  show respect for disintegrative  fears
lay the foundations for their own disintegration.

     Fears  of  personal and communal  disintegration  are
generally  worthy  of  respect;   fears  of  personal  and
communal integration are generally not worthy of  respect.
Playing   games   with   words   to   prove   that    such
distinctions  are  not  valid is not  worthy  of  respect.
The   articulation  of   clarifications  of  the   truths,
to which  such distinctions point, is worthy of respect.

     Participants   in  addictive/codependent  games    of
mutual self  deception  tend to fear integrative  behavior
which  will   reveal  their  games  for  what  they   are.
Such participants are often powerful and respected people,
but  they  are trapped    inside   the  prisons  of  their
own mutual     self   deceptions.      It   is   important
to  recognize      how      their    prisons      generate
their  disintegrative  fears;     and  to   avoid  showing
dishonest respect for their disintegrative fears.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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