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 %4NOT BEING IN CONTROL OF WHO IS IN CONTROL ADDICT 870412

     People  who believe that it is good to be in  control
by virtue of their convictions find themselves involved in
human  conflicts  over  who should be in control  of  whom
else.   If some  control is good,  more control is better.
To  prove  that  you  are in control you must be  able  to
control the outcome of  actions of yourself and of others.
Such control is bound to be imperfect,  leading others who
believe  that  it  is  good to be in control  to  seek  to
perfect  the  technologies  by which  to  become  powerful
enough to be fully in control.

     The  technologies  by  which people  seek  to  be  in
control  cover  the  full spectrum  of  human  activities:
scientific,  political,  religious,  financial,  business,
psychological,  sexual, professional,  family, moralistic,
legalistic,  ethical,  etc.   People who believe that they
must be in control will use all kinds of means to seek  to
be in control.

     When some people seek to be in control of others, the
result may be either conflict or submission, or somewhere

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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