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                %INSTINCTIVE INTEGRATIVE CHALLENGES 860511

     Instinctive   integrative    desires often  challenge
disintegrative  ideals  and  values which  block  open and
honest communication.   Raw instincts by themselves do not
have   the   power  to  mount  successful   challenges  to
disintegrative ideals  and values.   It  is  important  to
articulate  integrative  values  which  appear  as  viable
alternatives to the disintegrative values which block open
and   honest   communication.     The   articulations   of
integrative  values and ideals must appear to be realistic
and  hopeful in  the eyes  of those who are  dedicated  to
disintegrative  values  and  ideals,   else they  are  not
helpful.

     Disintegrative ideals and values lead their  personal
incarnations  to play their games by rules  which  inhibit
open and honest competition  among ideals and values. They
play  by collusive  rules  under which the rules  must  be
unknown,  yet enforced with threats of personal rejection;
total  excommunication.   Yet the promptings of  Love  can
find ways to motivate  movement away from manipulative and
coercive  behavior  which  uses  rewards  and  punishments
according  to  a human  plan  to  control  human  behavior
systematically.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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